The Prince of Tides

The Prince of Tides[PDF / Epub] ☄ The Prince of Tides By Pat Conroy – PAT CONROY has created a huge brash thunderstorm of a novel stinging with honesty and resounding with drama Spanning forty years this is the story of turbulent Tom Wingo his gifted and troubled twin s PAT CONROY has created a huge brash thunderstorm of a novel stinging with honesty and The Prince PDF/EPUB ² resounding with drama Spanning forty years this is the story of turbulent Tom Wingo his gifted and troubled twin sister Savannah and their struggle to triumph over the dark and tragic legacy of the extraordinary family into which they were bornFilled with the vanishing beauty of the South Carolina low country as well as the dusty glitter of New York City The Prince of Tides is PAT CONROY at his very best. I'm wearing my softest fuzziest slippers while writing this review treading as lightly as I possibly can realising that I'm on holy ground here discussing a much beloved book among many of my very dear and respected Goodreads friends PLEASE DON'T HATE METhis book was at a disadvantage from the beginning because the spectres of Babs and Nick haunted me continuously from the horrendous movie adaptation However I was fully expecting to love and revel in this big romantic Southern family epic I didn'tThere I said it I didn't love it I didn't enjoy it I am bewildered how I received this book so off the mark from legions of other readers If you love this book please just laugh and disregard my review and keep on loving itMy first problem is that I found it incredibly sentimental with prose as purple as can be An example He was tall and thin and had a complexion like goat cheese left on the table too long The funeral parlour smelled like dead flowers and unanswered prayersAnd another I tasted the wine and it was so robust and appealing that I could feel my mouth singing with pleasure when I brought the glass from my lips The aftertaste held like a chord on my tongue; my mouth felt like a field of flowers The mousse made me happy to be aliveI also found a very weird incestuous tone cropped up dozens of times throughout the book This is a book in which sisters kiss their brothers on the lips where a brother carries his sister like a bride where a mother tells a son if she was younger she'd have a go at him where a father chases lewdly after his daughter after she shows him her budding breasts And so on and so forth and I could come up with many examples Once I started noticing the weirdness I just couldn't stop It gave me the no feelingI found the dialogue to be horrid characters constantly used each other's names in almost every line of dialogue Are you enjoying this Tom? Lowenstein I really am not Oh Tom Tom but why not? I wish I knew Lowenstein TOM Lowenstein Once I noticed it it was impossible not to notice it and cringe I felt like I was watching a terrible 1980s movie most of the time with a showy cinematic predictability And believability went out the window with the TIGER For goodness' sakes A very poor shrimping boat family has a Bengal tiger in their barn?Finally the love story between Tom and Lowenstein did nothing for me She wasn't particularly likeable and so unprofessional I might add So much build up leading to their relationship and then the sex scene was chaste enough to fit in a Stephenie Meyer book BOO And the way it ended was over the top cheesy Now that I've complained mercilessly and I apologise for that I will say one thing Pat Conroy does consistently well and which I appreciated is convey his love for the American South its beauty its vibrancy its imperfections and uniueness The South in particular Colleton South Carolina is the main character and anchor to the rest of the players in the story The sense of place and its tidal pull on the Wingo family is indelible and irresistible That is where the gold lies My wound is geography  It is also my anchorage my port of callSo begins the story of the Wingo family of Melrose Island in Colleton County South Carolina As told by Tom Wingo   To describe our growing up in the lowcountry of South Carolina I would have to take you to the marsh on a spring day flush the great blue heron from its silent occupation scatter marsh hens as we sink to our knees in mud open you an oyster with a pocketknife and feed it to you from the shell and say “There  That taste  That’s the taste of my childhood”  I would say “Breathe deeply” and you would breathe and remember that smell for the rest of your life the bold fecund aroma of tidal marsh exuisite and sensual the smell of the South in heat a smell like new milk semen and spilled wine all perfumed with seawater  My soul grazes like a lamb on the beauty of indrawn tides  Tom has a twin sister Savannah and as the story opens Savannah a successful poet who lives in New York City has just attempted to end her life by slashing her wrists with a razor blade  This is not the first time  He also has an older brother Luke who he idolizes but Luke is not there as this story opens and to understand why why his sister is barely clinging with frightening frailty to life why his big brother is not present; well then we have to go back  Back to when they were children Back to when Lila and Henry their parents controlled the great tides of their life  It is not a pretty picture The Wingos of Melrose island were an intensely disturbing dysfunctional family  Their three children survived a brutal upbringing one that they were not allowed ever to discuss or even acknowledge; isolated from the neighbouring community of Colleton with only each other to turn to for strength support and comfort  Their bond seemed unbreakableStill there is beauty here It was growing dark on this long southern evening and suddenly at the exact point her finger had indicated the moon lifted a forehead of stunning gold above the horizon lifted straight out of filigreed light intoxicated clouds that lay on the skyline in attendant veils  Behind us the sun was setting in a simultaneous congruent withdrawal and the river turned to flame in a uiet duel of goldThe new gold of moon astonishing and ascendant the depleted gold of sunset extinguishing itself in the long westward slide it was the old dance of days in the Carolina marshes the breathtaking death of days before the eyes of children until the sun vanished its final signature a ribbon of bullion strung across the tops of water oaks  The moon then rose uickly rose like a bird from the water from the trees from the islands and climbed straight up gold then yellow then pale yellow pale silver silver bright then something miraculous immaculate and beyond silver a color native only to southern nightsThese days Tom Wingo is a family man himself with a beautiful wife and three beautiful daughters but he can feel it all slipping away  He used to be a teacher and a coach work that he loved but that was before Luke  Now he cannot seem to bring himself to give his wife the intimacy she craves he wants to but it is like he is frozen unable to get himself in motion  He knows even before his wife confirms it that he is losing her  Perhaps their time apart while he is in New York City trying to help his sister will give them both an opportunity to reflect and come to terms with what they really want   It is in New York that Tom meets Susan Lowenstein Savannah’s psychiatrist and at her urging turns back the hands of time as he relates the events of their childhood in a last ditch effort to help Lowenstein understand the trauma that may go a long way in explaining Savannah’s suicide attempts and her current mental state It is the beginning of a long and uncanny season in the house of Wingo  There will be honor and decency and the testing of the ualities of our humanity or the lack of them  There will be a single hour of horror that will change our lives forever  There will be carnage and murder and ruin  When it is over we will all think that we have survived the worst day of our lives endured the most grisly scenario the world could have prepared for us  We will be wrong Violence sends deep roots into the heart; it has no seasons; it is always ripe evergreenThere will also be Luke our Prince of Tides Luke’s story however is one you would be well advised to read for yourselvesBut there is also a Bengal tiger and whales and a rare white porpoise and the South Carolina low country  There is sadness and brutality yes but also adventure and mirth and heart swelling love; all wrapped up in Conroy’s luscious lyrical haunting prose Later when we spoke of our childhood it seemed part elegy part nightmareI am sure a great many of you have likely already seen the movie with Barbra Streisand and Nick Nolte which was great  I loved it   You may be thinking why should I read the book when I already know the story?   Why? Because there is so much story here and because it is so beautifully written that it brings tears to my eyes and my chest feels oddly swollen just remembering some of Conroy’s passages  The movie cannot even begin to compare or compete  All The Stars in The Sky This is the book that is the reason I read anything at all for pleasure I decided I was going to read it before the movie came out and COMPLETELY fell in love with Conroy's style renewed my love affair with the low country of South Carolina and discovered the joy of diving into a book wholeheartedly Mr Conroy is the reason I read today The stories of what this family went through are heartbreaking at one or moments and hysterical at others I didn't think the movie was half bad but the book is phenomenal Passion swells for this epic The Prince of Tides and so I swim in murky waters here careful in my criticism not to become The Princess of Against the TidesAh hell Who am I kidding? This princess often swims against the tide and her upper body is strongSo let me not mince words Let's get right to itPat Conroy has almost as many devotees as Jesus I'm not sure about the source of the appeal but he looks like a jolly gnome in the pictures I've seen of him and I take him for a man who shook hands vigorously at book signingsOkay so he was affable I'm not entirely sure; you'd need to ask Wife #1 Wife #2 or Wife #3 how she felt about him and I enjoy affable types but I'm not sure why attention hasn't been placed on some of the damnable mistakes in his writingFirst off Mr Conroy is incredibly inconsistent He'll write something lovely and memorable like “when we spoke of our childhood it seemed part elegy part nightmare” Or “I was the son of a beautiful word struck mother and I longed for her touch many years after she had no obligation to touch me”And then he'll carry on for eons with some overly wordy barely readable prose I would struggle page after page reading these “rants” which felt almost like the long winded stories my children tell me as I drive them home from school You know the stories that feel as though they have no punctuation no beginning or ending and reuire the storyteller to say them all in one breath?Also um ahem anyone else made uncomfortable by Tom's mother wanting to make out with him and both brothers wanting to hook up with their sister? Who is this guy John Irving? And last but not least the dialogue For the love of God come on now Even if you love this book I ask you to return to it and read about 20 pages of the dialogue Truly do me this favor before you deem me “harsh” Clearly this was not Mr Conroy's strength as a writer and luckily he is prone to descriptive narrative than passages of dialogue but whenever it occurred it pulled me right out of the story uick example“Where ya going Tom?”“Nowhere Savannah I'm going nowhere Savannah”“But did ya want to Tom? Did you want to go somewheres Tom?”“Nah Savannah But ya know what Savannah? I'm hungry Savannah”I'm telling you I've read better dialogue produced in short stories by high school freshmenSo what made this story all the rage? Was it the occasionally beautiful prose? The imagery? I experienced some of that Was it the focus that was placed on the need for men to pursue mentalemotional support? I liked that too Men need mental health outlets as much as women do and I hate that our society has long made it taboo for them to seek it Was this book instrumental in shifting mindsets? I don't knowI do know that the movie did nothing to help my reading experience I thought almost relentlessly of Barbra Streisand's acrylic nails and Nick Nolte's hair in his famous mugshot as I was reading it And worse than that I pictured Nick Nolte's mouth slack from overdosing whispering to Streisand's lacuered nails Lowenstein Lowenstein Hard to get past that though it's not the book's faultSo back to the book Most Conroy diehards tell me that Tides isn't their favorite; it's typically The Great Santini when I ask I'd be happy to receive Conroy suggestions and I'd be open minded toward another readThis was just surprisingly disappointing to meThree stars says the Princess Against the Tides three stars for some great one liners a fantastic title and the book's long lasting cultural impact A Riptide In Southern English naked means you ain't got no clothes on while nekkid means you ain't got no clothes on and you're up to something Lewis Grizzard Clip of the 3 kids in film version of novel Man wonders but God decidesWhen to kill the Prince of Tides A verse from the eponymous poem by Savannah Wingo the suicidal sister and renowned poet in Pat Conroy's The Prince of Tides a novel dealing on its surface with the general mentality of the Southern United States particularly of the region's male genderConroy's protagonist Tom Wingo gives a first person account of the heart stinging story of the Wingo family of the South Carolina coast primarily to his sister's NYC therapist in an attempt to save sis's life after a second suicide attempt The novel provides fertile ground for delving deeply into conflicts among family members the steadfastness of the grandfather's religious beliefs marital infidelity wounds and healing the bonds between siblings and the lifelong scars left by a parent's physical and mental abuse and by a barbarous rape The story is also a serenade to our need for a' and the irony that humans so capable of loving friends family and mates can also show savagery than any other species to our own species and to our environment Through the contrast between New York City and a fishing village on the Carolina coast Conroy examines these issues in a superb self reflective way showing that we can find love anywhere when we least expect it and with someone we initially see as so different; and love will follow us wherever we go so long as we let itSplendorous and distinctly Southern Before I wrote this I took a cursory look at a few of the reviews and realized to my dismay that in this case I am the Grinch who took the roast beast And yet I stand by my rating because this book was for me an exercise in maudlin pablum The protagonist experiences all matter of tragedy in his youth both uotidian and bizarre an abusive wretch of a father a venal socially climbing mother a horrific yet nonsensical assault and then grows up to have a mentally ill sister and a cheating wife There's also some mystery about his brother's fate but I won't spoiler it for you hint it's nonsensical too The aforementioned sister has suffered a breakdown which takes him from South Carolina to NYC where he meets her therapist There he tells the story of their life to nice therapist lady with lines like I haven't gotten to the worst part yet I haven't told you about the time they picked up and MOVED my hometown Doctor Ahem sniff sniff Yes that scene is in the book At some point he hooks up with the therapist She has a snooty violinist husband That is the highlight reel Now you don't have to read this book De nadaI'm not completely heartless The story about the pet tiger choked me up a little Wait a pet tiger in South Carolina? In the 1940's? See I told you this book was freaking ridiculous By the way I read this around the same time the movie came out and told a friend who had seen it I hated the book but the part with the tiger was sad She said Tiger??I have heard that The Great Santini was a better Conroy book and I did like the movie version of it Then again people seem to like this book too So for now I'll go back to stuffing the Who's Xmas tree up the chimney Pat Conroy's prose is tragically acuainted with all the misery and glory and pain and beauty of humanity It is also deeply entrenched in the American south I believe he immortalizes his own time and place the way Hemingway did for wartime Europe This story so startlingly brutal and direct in it's engagement of the reader lays out the impressive and failed life of Tom Wingo The plain good virtue and astonishing cruelty of small town South Carolina take shape in an uneasy and inevitable connection vying ferociously with the complicated sadness of modernity This book is treacherous and difficult wounding at the very threshold of a happy or cathartic moment and while it is not always pleasant to read it is provocative and cathartic It is an angry and sensitive book dedicated to an ideal of America and made up of terrific stories It is all tied together in the structure of a novel and ends up being well worth the read I really did not intend to read The Prince of Tides anytime soon until a couple avid reading friends told me I should not pass it byand they were so rightIf you've seen the movie you already know this is an unforgettable and disturbing story set in both the South Carolina low country and New York City about an extremely dysfunctional family with abusive father Henry and complacent mother Lila whose children are traumatized by their treatment during childhoodbut while Henry's brutality would leave a lasting impression on all their lives it is nothing compared to the scary as hell seven foot giant who would forever terrorize Luke Tom and his twin sister Savannah I can still see him starring in their windowDespite all the dark hidden secrets that eventually come to light this emotional story reveals some good times and laughable moments toolike grandmother Tolitha's episode inside the casketand Henry's fried Alpo dog dinner my favorite and combined with Tom's sarcastic wise crack humor and close loving relationship with his siblings the jesting does help to lighten the severity of horrors endured and tragedy of loss While the book is centered around Savannah's insanity and treatment by Dr Susan Lowenstein their very disturbing childhoods are narrated by Tom who hopes to bring his sister back from her world of demons and silenceExcept for bits of animal cruelty here and there that I abhor this is an incredible story and extraordinary novel I remember the movie being uite good but the book in comparison has much detail and is IMHO exceptional I can't remember the last time I felt this torn; I hated the characters for being so selfish with their affections so cowardly in their confrontations the cruelty shown when the moment was theirs for the taking What I hated was when the victim on the receiving end and to be fair it always rotates would rise up in anger but then crumble to their knees in love and forgiveness And that's also why I loved them In one moment they felt so betrayed so dishonored by blood and by love Then would wait five minutes and forgive them because of who they werefamily The parents who brutalized but also showed beauty the siblings that both threw each under the bus and saved them from it and the hometown that treated them like nothing than low rent scrubs And all those in betweens the hits the tragedies the shining moments the crimes so unspeakable it leaves the reader wondering if there really is Godthey stream in and out of life the yellow red threads in life's tapestry I've read other reviews on this book and I think 75% of them got it wrong While the location is in South Carolina and the southern culture itself becomes a character in it that town feeling that family feeling that can be anywhere And finally even had I not been utterly entranced by Conroy's writing style I never would have wished for one page less After years of reading predominantly great reviews of this book I finally read it only to wonder why everyone was raving Perhaps Pat Conroy explained it himself when he wrote Savannah's living proof that writing poetry and reading books causes brain damage I found myself skipping entire pages of pointless description and only skimming the entire children's book written by SavannahMost of the momentous events of the story reuire the reader to accept the most unbelievable things Bengal tiger as facts of life for the Wingos but the children's book crosses a line; this book within the book is only horrific in that it's a book no publisher would have published because it's a book that no parent would ever have let their child readThroughout the real book beginning with Tom's reference to his daughters' lovely perfectly shaped behinds to the children's book and all the way to the end there's a tinge of incest and inappropriate sex to everything that leaves me needing a shower I'm giving the book 2 stars because I think the story buried under way too many words is an interesting one it's just too hard to find most of the time AnnaLovesBooks

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  • Paperback
  • 664 pages
  • The Prince of Tides
  • Pat Conroy
  • 09 February 2015
  • 9780553172799